Monday, January 16, 2012

Paul Sebastian Joel 1954--2008





Today is the fourth anniversary of my son Paul’s death, and I found myself wondering just how prevalent dying is among us these days.  According to Wolfram Alpha, ten million people will have died in the US in these last four years.  That’s a lot of grief, and I doubt such an amazing number provides any solace for anyone, particularly for recent bereavements.  Ten million families, one at a time.  Forty-eight thousand people dying every week, in this country alone, what a massacre!  No wonder so much addiction to church, synagog, and mosque.  Otherwise, there’s not much to fall back on, unless one is able to settle finally for a shrug and say to oneself with conviction, “It is what it is, that’s how it works, that indeed is how the Cookie Crumbles.”


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